Across the street from my grandparents old home place there was an old Texaco station. It had been there from when I was a child and before. My two uncles would come home from Delaware, where they worked for Dupont and would sit around and tell us about how they used to sit at the back of the Texaco station and hear old-timers reminisce about days gone by. There was an old pot bellied coal burning stove that heated the place in the winter. The stove and its heat became the centerpiece for recounting the trials of men. We lived in the country and I remember as I got older I used to like to go over to the station and you guessed it, listen to old-timers tell stories.
I heard them talk about hunting, politics, lack of rain and the good Lord. It was all about remembering. There is something in us that needs to remember. My uncles told me when they were kids they would go across the street and hear the conversation about how WW 2 was going. They listened as the older men rehearsed their trials and told war stories about WW 1.
Funny how time passes on and yet people like to tell the stories and many of us like to hear.
Look at the millions of books that have been sold telling us of the Alamo, Eisenhower, Patton, Vietnam, two world wars, and the list goes on. This week I spent time with my friends and listened with interest to accounts of war, imprisonment and how these men gave their hearts to Jesus Christ. They were remembering and it helped me to remember.
Memorial Day is a special day and a heart filled with grief for man Americans. Husbands, sons, and daughters have died so we can sit in our rocking chairs and even have memories. Memorial Day is a day we honor the living and the dead and remember.
The Bible is filled with recollections. The Scriptures also are filled with admonitions for us to remember. Yes, we tend to forget…God, truth where we came from and great acts of deliverance. God even had Israel to establish feast days so that the nation would not forget who God was and what he had done for them. Even Jesus at the Passover meal, from where we get Eucharist, was a meal of remembrance. The apostle Paul quotes those words,” As often as you do this, do this in remembrance of me.”
We forget too often what others have done for us. Maybe we forget the blessings we have are not owed to us. We have moved beyond slavery in America. We have sped through an industrial revolution that catapulted this nation to the strongest economic and military power in the world. How did it come? By people who were committed to the principles of hard work and sacrifice. By people who in their tests and trials remembered their God, their family and those who had come before them.
Those who forget learn hard lessons. We now have troops scattered all over the earth safeguarding our heritage and our future. We have had several in our family that served and for that I am grateful.. We should all be thankful there are so many willing to give the ultimate sacrifice. Such are the sacrifices our soldiers make. Such are the sacrifices that loved ones have made in seeing their loved ones journey to places in the world for us.
We have many veterans in our community. They all have stories and they carry the physical and emotional scars of war and death.
Sometimes it is hard to remember, but necessary. To remember brings up hurts and painful times. To remember conjures up images one would be more than glad to forget. When we remember others we honor them and their legacy.
I still like to hear the stories. I guess I have that much kid still left in me. As we grow older and get through life, we carry with us stories too. I find myself telling my little ones some of the same stories my grandfather told me when I was a child. I even remember the little lullaby’s grandma sung to me rocking me to sleep. What comfort I find in remembering.
Take time to remember this Memorial Day. Take the time to tell a few stories and make an indelible impression to your kids. Many have died to let us have the blessings we have. The least we could do is remember.
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